Monday, December 28, 2009

My friend told on this one guy in school who sexually harrassed her best friend and now she's b

online and physically.



the guy who she told on wrote a comment on one of his friend's myspaces:



http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fus...



(his username is "julius is mega cool"; you can see his comment like halfway down the comments section)



and as if that's not bad enough, his friends are all laughing about it and saying "you're not going to get in trouble for that?" and "who did you feel up? did it feel good?" and stuff like that.



it's gross.



my friend's name is sharon, and not only did she see her friend get harrassed but she overheard him saying that he's going to do it to another one of her friends.



she wants me to tell the guidance counselor again because she already went to tell but i'm scared because... what if that starts happening to me?



what should i do?



i'm really, really scared.



My friend told on this one guy in school who sexually harrassed her best friend and now she's being bullied?

if your worried about going to the counciller youself then you need to tell this situation to your parents and ask them to ring the school for you explaining how scared you are that you may end up being a target..



maybe also find a teacher you trust and tell them emphasising how important it is you want to remain anonymous..



it is important that you do tell someone because it will only get worse, or others will copy the behaviour thinking it is acceptable.



good luck

What make a man look up his ex (on myspace) and start going into details on...?

how beautiful she is after all these years, I wanted to marry you even when I was 15,. but even to this day I knew you were the one, .Maybe one day if it's meant to be, we could finish what we started. I spent all the time on our relationship and the other guy ended up with you. (and stuff like this)



Then his significant other catches him, and he deletes his myspace, and swears none of it was, cries and apologizes for days. (and does not try to contact the other women so far, for weeks I know he hasnt, and I believe her)



Would he try to contact her again eventually? She told him she broke up with him because he went out with another girl when she moved out of state, but that she understood why he did, and she felt her having to move away with her family is what screwed thier relationshp up. So does that sound like she'd have him back ever? I cant keep an eye on him 24/7, or would want to. Would he contact her again, or was this just youth fantasy? The things he said were deep :(



What make a man look up his ex (on myspace) and start going into details on...?

LoL there are a couple of things that could cause this....



1.) He truly means it, but probably isnt the case.



2.) Its more of a game to him, to see if he still "has" her like that. To see if he can throw a few lines out there and if she'll come running back. Good chance thats it...



3.) Last - something has gone terribly wrong with his plans and he is searching for options b/c he feels rushed or desperate now. Good chance this is it too...



Id say the chances are 1% for answer number 1 - 49.5% its answer 2 - 49.5% its answer number 3.



What make a man look up his ex (on myspace) and start going into details on...?

he is doing it out of regret for things in his past. The point you should look at, is if she responded to him. If not, you have nothing to worry about. You said she ended it, and for good reason. Perhaps he realized a day late that he did make a mistake. But it worked in your favor cause you got the girl.



What make a man look up his ex (on myspace) and start going into details on...?

can you say pathetic.... you clearly are to be with a guy like this... seriously this will never work and yes most likely he will try to contact her again... If it isn't going to work for yous alone, it most certainly wont work to keep your family together... drop him and find a guy who wants to wrap his life around you and not search for long lost exs...



What make a man look up his ex (on myspace) and start going into details on...?

God! guys are so stupid sometimes right??? talk as a couple instead of asking here in YA...coz we don't really know your husband maybe he's good inside and that he loves you and that ONLY you would really know right... and i guess it's better if you'd talk to him instead of aking other people because you might get fired up and then you'd just end up fighting with him.



ask him. he has the right to know what you're thinking and you have the right to voice out what you feel.



What make a man look up his ex (on myspace) and start going into details on...?

I don't think your concern should be on if she would have him back. The biggest issue is, why did he contact her and say those things. What is your relationship like with him? Sometimes, people need to resolve let go of past hurts but he clearly left a door open with saying "Maybe one day if it's meant to be, we could finish what we started." So it wasn't a contact to move on with his life. He still feels like she is the one and still wants her.



I think that people can have thoughts about the past and what could have been but he now has a relationship and a child with you. He opened doors that should not have been open. He needs to admit his feelings and seek couples counseling if he is committed to your relationship. This is a bad situation he has created. How do you have contact with her? I am not sure where that fits in here. You say, " The things he said were deep" No longer a fantasy, he has made it real and put it out there for her to make a move as he already has. You guys really need to talk about this and find a good counselor. I do think the possibility is there for her as she told him she understood why he made some choises and the only reason for their end was her moveing, not that she wanted to end it. The trust between you both is broken as he is denying and even swearing that it is not true. If you have access to the comp. he used then I think you need to check the history file and anything else he has done on the comp. I wish you the best.

How to get over a guy you really like?

this guy i really like, everyone thought he liked me and maybe he did cause he did love to stare but, when i told him i liked him he said he didn't like he back ( on myspace) and he still acts like he likes me i just don't under stand but hes in 9th grade and i'm in 8th so were in different schools and i don't see him very much so i think i should get over him HOW



How to get over a guy you really like?

YOu get over him by accepting that he doesn't like you the way you had hoped. Then you find something to take your mind off of him, like hanging out with friends or something. It takes time for those feelings to go away, but as long as you are committed to getting past this, then you can do it.



How to get over a guy you really like?

sleep with his best friend

How can i talk to the guy i like???

Heres the deal, i went to school with the guy i like but he graduated last year and i'm still in school, he has a myspace but i dont, and i hardly ever get to see him anymore.........so what can i do???? i need lots of help because i REALLY like him......



How can i talk to the guy i like???

You could get a myspace and contact him from there saying "Hey do you remember me? You were my schoolmate!" and see if he responds. And gradually maybe you will be able to make a coffee date or something, then you will get to see him!

My parents won't allow me to have a Myspace/Facebook!!!?

Okay, so I'm 12, almost 13, and my parents (mainly my mom) thinks myspace is too dangerous for girls!! She lets my brother (15) have on, because he's a guy! She thinks i'm going to get raped or something.



The thing is, all my friends have myspaces, and i really want one. I want a facebook too, but they say that Facebook is bad because you have to give away yer full name. What should I do? I don't want to disrespect them, because they WILL find out, because the computer is in the hallway, and they always pass by, and if they don't see, I add my cousin, and her mom finds out and tells my mom!



I told her it's private, but she STILL SAYS NO!



My parents won't allow me to have a Myspace/Facebook!!!?

well first of all. u should never sneak behind ur parents back. otherwise, u'll never give dem dat sense of "oh she's earned my trust". i suggest u wait, plus ur just 13. myspace was originally for 18 yr olds. and facebook is for college students, but i guess they changed it. if u really wanna talk to ur frens online, just get AIM for all of ur guys and chat. no need for myspace, it'll only suck up ur time, and it can be dangerous. there's been cases of people getting into dangers, raped, and even killed/suicide. just talk to ur frens in person, over da fone, or chat. be the bigger person and do what's right, not what's "in".



My parents won't allow me to have a Myspace/Facebook!!!?

yep. stay away from myspace.



My parents won't allow me to have a Myspace/Facebook!!!?

Just make one, don't add your cousin and use it when they're not home or are asleep or something



My parents won't allow me to have a Myspace/Facebook!!!?

There protecting you they want whats best for you my sis witch is 15 has one but she had to ask



My parents won't allow me to have a Myspace/Facebook!!!?

Respect your parents' wishes and don't try to sneak around them. Show them you can be trusted. Earn their respect and then I bet they will allow you to create a MySpace.



My parents won't allow me to have a Myspace/Facebook!!!?

hon she is your mom , thus shes the boss , do as she demands and save your self a lot of headaches



My parents won't allow me to have a Myspace/Facebook!!!?

Respect what your parents say. They tell you things for a reason, they have good reasoning behind these things and you are probably too young to have a myspace. The legal age to start a myspace profile is 16 and over anyway, so find something more productive to do! The world was still turning before myspace even existed and it will long after myspace goes away.



My parents won't allow me to have a Myspace/Facebook!!!?

First off, stay away from MySpace and either way, you're too young. It's for people aged 14 and up. I'd like you stay away from there...more and more it sounds dangerous.



Facebook is like a gated community. However, you're too young since you must be high school aged at least. When you do get into high school you dont have to use your full name. A lot of girl use their first and middle name (ex: Amanda Lynn) so they don't have to give out their last name.



Your parents are not being unrealistic since you're only in middle school.



My parents won't allow me to have a Myspace/Facebook!!!?

you'r actually not allowed by the site to have a myspace until your 14



wait till then and ask again.



Show that you can be trusted, promise you'll let your parents have your password so they can make sure your not doing anything wrong.



And promise you wont add anyone you don't know.



thats what my sister had to do. :)



My parents won't allow me to have a Myspace/Facebook!!!?

well i wouldnt suggest sneaking around behind their backs to get one because if your parents have any knowledge of computers theyll know how to check your history. id say just deal with it for now and maybe theyll come around.



My parents won't allow me to have a Myspace/Facebook!!!?

How about asking the Lady, (Mom), if it would be ok to have a Myspace page if she were part of it. Let her view your page and make comments. Just take whatever steps that are necessary to show Mom that you are trust worthy and can handle an account like this. That's how my kids do things. They run their ideas by me and then we talk and work things out so that in the end everybody is both happy and satisfied. Give it a try, I'll bet that after a bit she will see it your way. And I would think that it would be fun to share a "My Space" with you parent.



My parents won't allow me to have a Myspace/Facebook!!!?

take my advice it's really not worth it. just wait till your parents allow it. try saying i'll give you my password and you could check my friends and stuff. but really it isn't worth it.



My parents won't allow me to have a Myspace/Facebook!!!?

Put yourself in your parents position. You are 12 and female.



How many boys go missing or turn up dead. I am with your parents on this one, until you are at least 15 and then I would have my eyes on whatever you were doing on the net.



There are more males trying to con young girls on the net, than there are males trying to con young men.



Be patient and understanding. They love you and do not want anything to happen to you. Your friends, if they are the same age as you, do not have parents who care for them as much as yours do.



My parents won't allow me to have a Myspace/Facebook!!!?

I'm 21 and I can tell you from experience MySpace is NOT a good idea for females in general. Women are more likely to be victimized then men...that's just the way it is. You have all the time in the world to have that stuff when you're older...you don't NEED it now.



My parents won't allow me to have a Myspace/Facebook!!!?

Here's what you do:



-Tell your mom that you are making a myspace.



-Make sure to never put your photo up, cuz she will get mad.



-Put your page on private



-Give your mom the username and password so that she can check



The reason she lets your brother on is not because he's a guy, it's because he's older than you. If you dont want your mom to see your myspace then there's only one thing left to do. Wait. Myspace isn't a necessity, in fact without it you have a less boring life. I have a Myspace and all I ever do is check it, it's not that fun, trust me.



My parents won't allow me to have a Myspace/Facebook!!!?

myspace is lame, and dangerous. it's cooler not to have one.



My parents won't allow me to have a Myspace/Facebook!!!?

hah I'm not allowed to have a MySpace either,



but I do. There are ways of hiding it on your



computer, plus just don't add your cousin. that would



slove alot too.



You can have your friends make you one and they can go on it every and check it for you. and then when you go to their houses, you can go on it.



My parents won't allow me to have a Myspace/Facebook!!!?

well u are too young... but my sister got one when she was 13, i didnt get one until i was 14, but thats only because i'd never heard of it back then xD just sign up for one using a different email adress, delete internet history, dont put up too much info about urself or a pic that wud draw a lot of attention, put ur profile on private so no weirdos add you!! i do that now and im 16, nearly 17 XD good luck :)

What make a man look up his ex (on myspace) and start going into details on...?

how beautiful she is after all these years, I wanted to marry you even when I was 15,. but even to this day I knew you were the one, .Maybe one day if it's meant to be, we could finish what we started. I spent all the time on our relationship and the other guy ended up with you. (and stuff like this)



Then his significant other catches him, and he deletes his myspace, and swears none of it was, cries and apologizes for days. (and does not try to contact the other women so far, for weeks I know he hasnt, and I believe her)



Would he try to contact her again eventually? She told him she broke up with him because he went out with another girl when she moved out of state, but that she understood why he did, and she felt her having to move away with her family is what screwed thier relationshp up. So does that sound like she'd have him back ever? I cant keep an eye on him 24/7, or would want to. Would he contact her again, or was this just youth fantasy? The things he said were deep :(



What make a man look up his ex (on myspace) and start going into details on...?

LoL there are a couple of things that could cause this....



1.) He truly means it, but probably isnt the case.



2.) Its more of a game to him, to see if he still "has" her like that. To see if he can throw a few lines out there and if she'll come running back. Good chance thats it...



3.) Last - something has gone terribly wrong with his plans and he is searching for options b/c he feels rushed or desperate now. Good chance this is it too...



Id say the chances are 1% for answer number 1 - 49.5% its answer 2 - 49.5% its answer number 3.



What make a man look up his ex (on myspace) and start going into details on...?

he is doing it out of regret for things in his past. The point you should look at, is if she responded to him. If not, you have nothing to worry about. You said she ended it, and for good reason. Perhaps he realized a day late that he did make a mistake. But it worked in your favor cause you got the girl.



What make a man look up his ex (on myspace) and start going into details on...?

can you say pathetic.... you clearly are to be with a guy like this... seriously this will never work and yes most likely he will try to contact her again... If it isn't going to work for yous alone, it most certainly wont work to keep your family together... drop him and find a guy who wants to wrap his life around you and not search for long lost exs...



What make a man look up his ex (on myspace) and start going into details on...?

God! guys are so stupid sometimes right??? talk as a couple instead of asking here in YA...coz we don't really know your husband maybe he's good inside and that he loves you and that ONLY you would really know right... and i guess it's better if you'd talk to him instead of aking other people because you might get fired up and then you'd just end up fighting with him.



ask him. he has the right to know what you're thinking and you have the right to voice out what you feel.



What make a man look up his ex (on myspace) and start going into details on...?

I don't think your concern should be on if she would have him back. The biggest issue is, why did he contact her and say those things. What is your relationship like with him? Sometimes, people need to resolve let go of past hurts but he clearly left a door open with saying "Maybe one day if it's meant to be, we could finish what we started." So it wasn't a contact to move on with his life. He still feels like she is the one and still wants her.



I think that people can have thoughts about the past and what could have been but he now has a relationship and a child with you. He opened doors that should not have been open. He needs to admit his feelings and seek couples counseling if he is committed to your relationship. This is a bad situation he has created. How do you have contact with her? I am not sure where that fits in here. You say, " The things he said were deep" No longer a fantasy, he has made it real and put it out there for her to make a move as he already has. You guys really need to talk about this and find a good counselor. I do think the possibility is there for her as she told him she understood why he made some choises and the only reason for their end was her moveing, not that she wanted to end it. The trust between you both is broken as he is denying and even swearing that it is not true. If you have access to the comp. he used then I think you need to check the history file and anything else he has done on the comp. I wish you the best.

How do i getthis guy to notice me?

i really like this guy (that i only see in the hallways, i have no classes with him) and i have him added on myspace, but for some reason im too shy to talk to him on that and he probably already thinks im a stalker. but how should i talk to him or get him to notice me in school? please help !



How do i getthis guy to notice me?

There's not much you can do in the busy hallways of school except to pass a note or ask about him through a mutual friend. If you have a friend in common on myspace, you might try talking to them and see what happens. The funny thing is we get so wrapped up in stuff like this but 20 years from now you won't even remember a lot of the people you hung out with and obsessed over in school. So don't worry or be afraid to approach people and make friends. Live life to the fullest. Good luck!

 
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