I am mortified and embarrassed and feel rejected! Is guy is a jerk and weirdo right?!?

Okay, so once again I'm baffled and actually stunned.

Last week I met what I thought was a fun, smart, interesting guy.

We had been talking for about 6 weeks online/phone. He had contacted

me on myspace and we seemed to hit it off.

Well when we met we seemed to click. Held hands, kissed, fooled around, etc.

After meeting me he called the same night, texted me and IMd me all the following week.

So yesterday after talking on and off all day he asked me to come over.

I live about 12 minutes away from his condo.

I went there.

He treated me poorly. He bit my neck very hard, started to spank me, called me degrading names,

etc. After about 20 minutes he told me that he was not "feeling it" and that I should leave.

He said "maybe it's cause I'm sick." He then had the nerve to say, "I'll still IM you tomorrow."

Without crying or feeling disgusted I said "that's totally fine."

On my way home, he texted me and told me there was only one way to find out if we clicked.

I am mortified and embarrassed and feel rejected! Is guy is a jerk and weirdo right?!?

Well, hopefully you were smart enough to keep him from knowing where you live. Hopefully he just likes it kinky and wouldn't pursue you just to harm you.

If he contacts you again, just tell him that you really don't think you're right for each other and you would prefer he not contact you again.

Learn your lesson - people can be different than what they appear. And having kinky preferences doesn't make someone a bad person necessarily.

I am mortified and embarrassed and feel rejected! Is guy is a jerk and weirdo right?!?

he was just looking for sex. He does what he can to reel someone in and then goes after what he wants

I am mortified and embarrassed and feel rejected! Is guy is a jerk and weirdo right?!?

IM him back. Tell him he was wrong.. there wasn't "only one way to find out" if you clicked. He could have asked you if you liked to do anything different in bed before he sprung it all on you out of the blue like that.

He doesn't sound very considerate. If you're not kinky, and you don't want to take a lot of time teaching him things, I wouldn't talk to him too much again.

Edit: Just do what the person above me said, tell him you are not right for each other. My goodness you asked this question a lot of times.