What should I do about this guy, my best-friend?

Hey, so me and this guy have been really good friends for about seven or eight years now. And two weeks ago he blocked me from his IM, MySpace, everything. He won't respond to my e-mails of phonecalls, or text messages. I've been very polite and told him that if he would tell me what I did, I would do everything I could to fix it.

I found out today he has a girl friend. Which, I'm thinking it will come into play, but I have no romantic feelings for him whatsoever. But do you think him having a girlfriend could be part of it?

What should I do to save our friendship? Is there anything I can do? Please help. I don't want to loose him. He was a really good friend to me.

What should I do about this guy, my best-friend?

It may be part of the girl's request. If he likes her and does not want to lose her he probably did it.

on the other hand, the girl might have done it and he just hasn't realized it.

have you spoken to him at all since this person to person?

if you are such good friends, then give him some space, have patience and he may come around again after the either split up or they come to terms with each other.

but don't be too hurt if he doesn't come back, it is just part of growing up and spreading wings.

until then, have patience and keep an open mind, you probably didn't do anything wrong, just look elswhere for your friends right now.

What should I do about this guy, my best-friend?

talk to him asap

What should I do about this guy, my best-friend?

His girlfriend probable has something to do with it, back off and if he is your friend he will get in touch with you.

What should I do about this guy, my best-friend?

his girlfriend might have something to do with it..thats not cool if he is ditching you because of her..sure hes a good friend?

What should I do about this guy, my best-friend?

I think you should call him and explain to him you just want to be friends and hate to lose his friendship... if he still is being ridiculous then he isn't that good of a friend. Its hard when you want to be friends with someone and they don't want to be back.... just give it time.. he will realize he misses your friendship... good luck!

What should I do about this guy, my best-friend?

Sounds to me like the girlfriend is totally insecure about his having a female friend. Keep trying to talk to him about the situation, but if he won't talk to you then write him off. Nobody who'd totally ditch a friend for a new relationship is worth your time.

If the two of you get to be friends again, and he stays with this girl and gets serious, you may have to deal with things changing some, since it may not be appropriate for the two of you to be hanging out alone anymore. If that makes her uncomfortable, then it's justified. That's just what happens, and it may eventually be reversed one day if he's single and you find a serious man. He can still be a friend, though.

What should I do about this guy, my best-friend?

Sit down with him and talk to him. Let him know that you will always be there for him and you would never do anything to jeopordize your friendship. Hear what he has to say about the situation as well. Reassure him that you wouldn't do anything to jeopordize his relationship with his girlfriend. Hopefully, his girlfriend will not get jealous of the fact that you two are friends. The best thing that you can do is to talk to him. Good luck.

What should I do about this guy, my best-friend?

well maybe u should go to his house and talk it out with him and his girlfriend

What should I do about this guy, my best-friend?

sorry he has already ditched you...

What should I do about this guy, my best-friend?

I personally think that you could do better. Even though you seem like you really like him, it could be a big joke. He probaly considers you two as "just friends." Even though he doesn't know that you like him, he probaly thinks you are interested in someone else. So confront him if you really like him, but if you do not then find somebody else.

What should I do about this guy, my best-friend?

he bloked u right, not u are the one who do it..... do u think that your friendship will be the same after this matter ? its seems like no to me, he is selfish and maybe this was his girlfriend's wants.....

What should I do about this guy, my best-friend?

*Usually boyfriends or girlfriends play a large role in the "silent treatment" towards their friends.*

~This is for an obvious reason, JEALOUSY. And most of the time the boyfriend or girlfriend will threaten them with "If you talk to him/her then were through."

*Basically your guy friend sounds like he's whipped, and he is doing whatever she tells him to. And it's very likely she knows who you are, and she is jealous of you and the "relationship" or rather friendship you two have with each other, so she's told him to block you out from contacting him. OR he even could have given her his passwords (not likely..) and she could have blocked you?! I mean it's really not as far fetched as it might sound, because when guys are whipped (even girls) the "whipper" can get whatever they want from that person.

**So I think you need to try and call him again, and if you still get no response...then drop it. I mean he KNOWS you have been trying to contact him, and he'd be lying if he said otherwise to you. If he is unwilling to talk to pretty much his best girl friend...then that's crap. Especially since you two have known each other for so long, that is unfair to you and really hurtful.

~I say...if there is no response, then quit trying. He'll eventually come around sooner or later...and then he'll come crawling back to you telling you how sorry he is and how much of a jerk he was etc. and when that point comes around, then it's up to you whether or not you want to forgive him and continue to be friends with him still or not.

**Good luck, let us know how things end up working out.

What should I do about this guy, my best-friend?

As a women you should already know the answer............

Give him sometime and make him introduce you to his girl friend and be friend with his girl friend and don't behave wrongly to him when you are with them.

What should I do about this guy, my best-friend?

I would say that his girlfriend is attempting to control him, she for some reason is jealous of your friendship. Maybe she picks up on some feelings that he has for you? If you can see him in person you really should, he cant block you when your in his face. If you can't see him, write him a letter or keep texting, etc. then maybe play on his ego a little bit and ask him why his girl is controlling him, man or mouse? Friends can last forever, "love" rarely does.

What should I do about this guy, my best-friend?

I think that he likes you as a friend, but since he has a girlfriend he might think that she will get mad or jealous of how close you two are or were so he doesn't want anything to happen to him and his girlfriend.

I hope you figure it out

What should I do about this guy, my best-friend?

Well since he won't respond to anything....send him a letter through the postal mail. Explain to him how you feel about your friendship. He'll definitely read that and he'll think about things.

If he doesn't respond.....just leave him alone..give him time.......when she dumps him he'll come back crawling to you. It worked for me.

Besides a true best friend would've told you he had a girlfriend in the first place...best friends don't hide those kind of things.

What should I do about this guy, my best-friend?

At the present he's too involved with what seems to be a jealous girl and he's trying to keep her happy. Don't worry about it just keep busy with other friends, he'll realize what he lost and be sorry for acting this way.

It doesn't make sense that he wouldn't even give you an explanation, its not worth worring about.