Confused about this guy?

met this guy back in december, he was a personal trainer, and he nice, and cute, and he would flirt and stuff with me, and even went as far to tell me that if i wanted to hang out to call him, and maybe we could go to a movie, but I never did, but I would still see him at the gym, and he would ask me where my man was at, and stuff like that, so a few months back I called him to try to set something up, and he tells me that he's broke we'll go out next week comes, then he says the same thing, then a few weeks past and he says he's going throguh family stuff, and he'll get back to me, so I see him at the gym, and HE brings up if we could go out again, and I'm like okay..so we reserve a date, and he flaked, so i guess you can see where this is going, so i asked him if he like me more than a friend and he tells me, he says even though he find me to be attractive, he jut doesn't see me in a romantic way, and if I wanted to talk about it we can later, I never called him back because there

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this was about a month ago, so the next day after our discussion I notice that he changes his relationship status from single to in a relationship" on his myspace page, and then all of a sudden this girl is leaving him messages saying she loves him, and she can't wait to see him, I'm like Huh, he told me he was single, and now he's calling her the love of his life , I'm confused..

Confused about this guy?

Be happy, be VERRRRY HAPPY that you did not get involved with him...

don't be confused, don't be sad, don't be disappointed... BE VERY HAPPY... he is a flake and doesn't deserve you!!

do not show him you are disappointed or angry... the best revenge is to be happy. you will find someone better!!

Confused about this guy?

Girl,

What is there to be confused about? He does not want you. And the fact that he was broke should have you running in the other direction.

You wasted so much time on this joker and he strung you along like a string of pearls. I say, shake it off. He is not worth your precious energy.

Confused about this guy?

Don't waste your time with him. He is playing games. Sounds like he was in a relationship with this girl but probably seperated from her for awhile. Now he is back with her so he has no use for you. He was looking when she wasn't around but now that she is back in the picture, he's not looking anymore. Move on.