Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

About a month ago, this guy, Sam %26amp; I started going on dates. We went on one "date," and every other date has been us hanging out at his house, either alone or with his friends. That was cool with me, but all of my girlfriends got real suspicious over it. One day, I asked him if he liked me, %26amp; he was like, "Yeah, I like you a LOT. I love hanging out w/ you etc..." That made me happy, because I felt the same way. But, I like him in the, I want him to be my boyfriend way.

We don't really talk on the phone anymore (we both hate talking on the tele, but when we first met, we would stay on the phone for hours,) we talk through Myspace a lot, but certainly not everyday.

And, last night I was hanging out with him %26amp; his friends (again) %26amp; Sam got really, really drunk. At one point he was talking about how he was looking for a long lasting girlfriend, but was only "Faking Out" right now. Later, we had sex (our first time together) %26amp; then he was like "normal" Sam again... So, what does he want?

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

sex only

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

you must be ugly

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

I didn't even read your little story. he just wants sex!

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

Guess yall are good to go if you get along and stuff. Talk to him more and see also what he wants. Things could work out.

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

Why would you let a man use you like that? He got what he wanted out of you. Sounds like he wants nothing more.

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

maybe you were realllly good and now he's thinking your the one for him!!!

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

I Think He Wants You.

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

Why dont you try sitting him down and asking him. If you two are that close he should be open to conversation. It sounds to me like he does like you but there is only one way to reelly find out and that is communicating together.

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

It sounds like he is treating you like one of the guys . Be blunt ask him!

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

Man, you girls never learn!

You have sex with him when he is drunk and you expect him to respect you later.

Sorry to be harsh, but he played you.

Now he does not respect you either.

There is another reason to not have sex until after Marriage.

Peace!

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

dont fall forthe bull....dudes lie to get what they want ...dont give it up untill you know that he like you fo sho...oh ya...he only wants your goodiez...

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

its really confusing but u shuld test him

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

you already knew what he wanted and you gave it to him!

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

Sex and from anybody.... sorry to tell you!

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

If you just shut up and do what he tells you, everything will be ok.

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

now that you have had sex with him and if you guys just go to his house all the time and all you both do is have sex, sex, sex, then yes is sex.

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

he is just there for sex need more advice email me at keyla_brown123@yahoo.com

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

I think he likes you...but more as a friend than anything else.

I suggest you keep your distance, and just date other guys...

I suppose he would be a commitment minded guy if the right girl came along...

Of course this is all speculation, but i think you should leave it alone and just avoid getting hurt and even more confused than you are already.

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

I think that if he reaaaally wanted a serious relationship ith you he wolud see you as his girldfriend prospect. The bad thing is that after you heard he was only faking out roght now you slept with him so now he may think you are ok with that faking out. Stop sleeping with him at all, start treating him as a friend and if thing don楹搕 progress stop having any kind of contact with him. Good luck and remembre there are lots of fish in the sea.

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

you are just a buddy to him and now you became a **** buddy good job.. if you was unsure of the relationship you should of never of gave your body to him duhh

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

Obviously morals arew not an issue with you. What better time to let him into your pants than when he is "really, really drunk" and indicates that he is looking for someone/something else.

My recommendation is to give him a bunch more sex. Really push the limits on positions, locations, etc. Make him use you like a toilet. Then, cur him off or do his best friend or something.

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

What do YOU want?

If you want a relationship where all you do is hang out at his house with his friends and have sex, you've got it. If you want someone to go and do something with (like build a life together), you need to look elsewhere.

He's already told you that he's only "Faking Out" and he thinks you're cool with it, because you had sex with him right after he told you that, but you're not really, are you?

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

You know, there's a very simple way to find this out for yourself:

Stop putting out and see if he still wants anything to do with you.

I only wish this question had occurred to me a few relationships ago; would have saved me a ton of heartache.

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

wait it out if it was your "first time" together than just see how he acts if he continues to be the way it was then he might want something more he's just either not yet ready or too shy to say something. but if he starts to act different and you slowly stop talking then he just went for the one thing that he wanted and got it and now it's no use to him.....wait it out a little.....

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

Face it he drinks, and screwing around right now. If i were you i'd say hell with it and not see him anymore. Because you know if you get in the relationship, then he will start drinking even more and cheat in every girl around. think about how that will make you feel. but if you are in for that than go ahead.

and i do think he is just for sex, because he said we wasnt' serious now to look for a long lasting relationship. i'd say stop seeing him as soon as you can

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

take it from me he wants you and everybody else or thats just where he's at right now he my just be that comfortable with you that he does not feel like he has to work as hard in the earily part of the relationship if he is looking for lomg term that is!

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

It sounds to me like he just wants sex, and only told you those things to get in your pants. Don't hang out with him any more, unless its just a friend thing.

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

Sex with a drunk person. Ew. You slept with him while his inhibitions were down. Now you want a gurantee that he sees you as more than a sex object? Were you drunk too? That is the only reasonable excuse for your behavior.

Talk to the guy and tell him what you'd like to have happen. That you'd like a relationship. I have to tell you though, this should have happened before sex. Did you think that a toss in the hay with a drunk man would make you more of a consideration as a long lasting g/f? You thought wrong.

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

He need someone who he can trust and have more attention to all what he's doing. I think you should be careful in the other way' what if he had a bet on you with his friends that why his friends are mostly around whenever you are together.

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

What he wanted he got that night. It's like ya'll trying to have a relationship without having a relationship which is as crazy as it sounds. The "normal" Sam feeling will fade after the sex haze wears off and then what will you have? A bunch of questions again. Wake up, Girlfriend! When you let dude know how you really feel, you will know what you've really been holding on to. Don't be surprised if it was only an illusion of your own making!

Does this guy like me for me, or is he just there for sex?

He's like every other male - he wants a c um dumpster and your'e it! How do you like being called a c um dumpster?