I dont understand my guy friend can you help me out??

i have a guy friend we,ve known eachother since we were kids we get along sometimes but alot of the time we have spats or whatever.alot of the time he s hitting on me and has even asked me to date a couple times i only like him as a friend.he has other friends who are girls and also alot of friends on myspace so shouldnt he just hook up with one of these girls? i mean if he talks to them then he must like them. what do you guys think ??

I dont understand my guy friend can you help me out??

well he might just

be interested in u

and only you!! but if

you do not like him like

that than just tell him straight up

I dont understand my guy friend can you help me out??

Go on a date with him, see if you actually might like him.

I dont understand my guy friend can you help me out??

you cant help who you like

I dont understand my guy friend can you help me out??

I've had this problem before.. One of my best (guy) friends, like me. But I didn't really like him, he kept on asking me if I'd go out with him, professing his glorious love to me, and after 4 rejections, I finally said yes. Well, about 2 weeks ago he "broke" up with me giving the excuse of, " I have new hopes, and new interest." I'm guessing he meant, another girl!? But if you don't like him, I'd say don't go out with him, save yourself and him some heartace. I was more mad than I was "heartbroken" over the "breakup" with my friend. Mainly because I finally said yes and he just dropped me like he didn't care, when before he was telling me how beautiful I was and all he wanted was me..

I dont understand my guy friend can you help me out??

He just wants to find out whether you have some feelings for him; not just friends but more than that. It is up to you to stop being friendly with him or not.

I dont understand my guy friend can you help me out??

I think he has fears about venturing out to ask other girls out. With you, he's in his comfort zone. You've known each other for a long time and I believe that is one less step he needs to take. You two must have things in common, of which he is drawn to. So he comes to you when he THINKS he wants to date. I suggest you can find a away to nudge him toward asking other girls out. If or when he fails, be there to help him move on. Give him insight as to what girls are thinking when a guy shows interest in them. Like what he should be aware of and how not to react adversely or incorrectly. Always let him know it's alright to ask you about things related to girls, but let him know that there will be times that no amount of explaination can substitute for experiance; that's life--live it, and learn from it.

Source of my advice? My life. I was like your friend, except I was to embarrased to ask for help. Be there for him, but don't let him think he can date you unless you want that to happen. Hope that helps.

I dont understand my guy friend can you help me out??

He doesn't want them--the wants you. But if you're not into it be adamant about it. Don't lose your friendship over this.