There is this toothless guy from her church who has tried to cling to her since his only girlfriend in his entire life left him. Well my girl had hung out with him and some friends of hers in pitty but when she and I met she stopped responding to his comments on myspace. She and I have been going out for 3 months now and every month this guy pops up with a hey what you been up to I miss ya comment. The other day she told me that he is still posting that crap on her space and that if he would just look at her status it would say she is in a relationship.
Judging by the comments, it sounds like she isn't responding to him or hanging out with him. Although I am not worried about losing her to this goober, I don't know if I should just sit back like this. Part of me wants to tell her to tell him about us. The other part of me wants me to tell him myself. Or would either of these things scream insecurity? What to do?
Shoul I tell my girlfriend to tell this guy to bug off, or would that scream of insecurity?
Um, it would scream insecurity. But you should talk to her about the dangers of a stalker. They can be so scary.
Shoul I tell my girlfriend to tell this guy to bug off, or would that scream of insecurity?
This is my opinion, but if there is a guy that is approaching your girl, you dont need to say anything, you as a man go up to that guy and tell him to leave your girl alone, and if he says no or anything that you arent pleased with, you slap him straight up. Its not insecure to protect whats your... not like she is your property but it is your relationship with her and you must protect that as a man.,
Shoul I tell my girlfriend to tell this guy to bug off, or would that scream of insecurity?
clearly your gurl doesnt like him. if you meet him in person and your gurls with you, just hold your gurl close to you - hug her and kiss her. that'll tell him to stop pestering her. if he doesnt listen even then - just go and warn him to stay off your gurl.
Shoul I tell my girlfriend to tell this guy to bug off, or would that scream of insecurity?
He should eventually get bored and wander off. Guys hate rejection just as much as women usually. But if he doesn't leave her alone nothing lost by her erasing him off her profile. Or you asking her to tell him to leave her alone politely. Don't know why she's keeping him on her profile or not addressing the problem maybe she likes the attention, dunno. But if still he doesn't leave her alone its time for you to confront him face to face politely but sternly. I happen to have a bad temper when it comes to psycho's so I'm more inclined to ask her to tell him off though because if I get involved bad things can come. Its not an insecurity thing but if you let it keep happening you can start looking weak and a pushover.
Shoul I tell my girlfriend to tell this guy to bug off, or would that scream of insecurity?
Well first your girl should tell him clearly that she doesn't want to hang out with him and to stop contacting her. Harsh but sounds like that is needed.
If she already did this and he's still doing it, then as the guy you need to approach him and strongly tell him to quit it, or else.
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