Did she leave me for another guy?

Well theres this girl, Tiffany, that i dated for 4 months. You know normally months isnt a long time to me. But the thing is, is she took my virginity. Basically i did alot of stuff with her that was my first time in. Well right before our 4 months she was acting weird. Well before she started acting weird, that weekend she started talking to Dustin(her ex she dated for a year. He broke up with her and didn't talk to her for awhile) and well i felt something weird was happening. So yea i asked her and she broke up with me through MYSPACE instead of in person and that royally pissed me off. But basically i treated her right, for our 4 months i wrote her a poem. So anyways, she said she wanted a so called 'break' and that she wants to date me in the future, she wants us to supposebly work out after high school. But anyways she invited me to this party 2 saturdays ago. I was like "uh okay" and well it was her friends birthday. Well come to find out Dustin is there. For some reason she got mad about it and i was like "uh ok". So yea right when i get there she completely ditches me and goes to Dustin and her friends. It kinda pissed me off but whatever. Sop later on that night i catch her sittign in Dustin's lap. So i pull her off to the side and asked nicely what that was about. And she... blew UP! She was like "your always causing drama! I don't even want to hug you right now!" and i was like "wtf whatever" and she made me look like a complete fool basically. So afterwards her parents had to take us home and she kept hitting me n my leg with a glow stick saying "so are we cool now?" and knowing my sarcastic self i was like "oh yea we are cool". I get outta the car when they drop me off and she gets out too and i said "uh no dont get out" and she was like "but i always walk with you to your door just like you did for me" and i was like "well i dont want u to. you screwed up" and she was like "well i am" so whatever i didnt care... so she sits there and was like "thanks for coming" and i was like "whatever?" and shut the garage door. So basically till this day shes liking Dustin, a guy that is an ignorant asshole. Sad thing is is even her own best friends agree with me. So these last four nights i been out with my friends. I'm trying to ge tover her. But then when she calls asking how i been and i tell her what i been up to she gets pissed cause i told her about hanging out with other girls. and she was like "i dont care if their your friends i dont want to hear that! thats like me telling you about me going out with another person. you wouldnt like it either". I dunno guys shes confusing. Is she for real about wanting to date me in the future or not? I just dont understand her.

Did she leave me for another guy?

you should stay friend with your friends and take a break from tiffany. maybe dustin was her first and she wants to have some feelings that she felt with him to heal the hurt that she got from him when he dumped her. if you go back with her after highschool you are probably setting yourself up for another fall stay single your young play the field without sex sex just makes life harder more complicating

Did she leave me for another guy?

yes.

Did she leave me for another guy?

Yes maybe she did ! but you still not sure about that! you have to discover by your self and find the answer... act act act

Did she leave me for another guy?

yeah, tough luck mate, she's gone like the wind

Did she leave me for another guy?

YES

Did she leave me for another guy?

As it was your first time I would give yourself time to heal a bit you know heart wise then go to other parties where she isn't for a bit space a time maybe stay friends and have a talk don't wonder about things but you may never know the answer to that question love.

Did she leave me for another guy?

um I may be wrong but the other dude is probably better in bed, so your history.

Did she leave me for another guy?

well i didnt hav time to read the story..just wanna say..dont loose hope n try try again

u will find someone better

gud luck

Did she leave me for another guy?

Okay...Dude, she wants to bang Dustin now and then get back with you later...She is taking advantage of you...I know that there are emotional feelings there..but time will heal them...let her go...you can do better.

Did she leave me for another guy?

Dont waste your time with her, continue going out with other girls cause as you told her, "She screwed up"

Did she leave me for another guy?

oh wow. i think you should definetly forget about her. although you're both acting a bit selfish/immature i don't think she deserves to be with you after breaking up with you. that's just the stupidest thing to do. it's like saying " alright im going to dump you for a bit, date some dudes and come back and date you like nothing happened". i would not let her do that. i think you're doing the right thing by hanging out with your friends, and maybe the phone calls should stop because you're just b!tching at each other even more. anyway, good luck with that and i hope you get someone better next time.

Did she leave me for another guy?

I wouldn't trust her.

Did she leave me for another guy?

make sex with her again and leave her.

Did she leave me for another guy?

she probably does want to date you in the future. i broke up with my boyfriend cuz i needed a break and then i went back out with him. maybe she just wants to see what else is out there. and if you really treated her right like you said you did, she'll realize that and come back to you... if you still want her by then.

but seriously, dont talk about hanging out with other girls, even if they are your friends. it just hurts to hear it.

Did she leave me for another guy?

well she sounds like she doesnt know what she wants you should give her some time to decide what she wants it sounds like you are both younger and got your who lives in front of of you many women never figure out what they want so dont get hug up man cut if off if she keeps playin games it will do you good in the long run

Did she leave me for another guy?

Sex screws up a friendship.

Having wrote that, you are not a friend but a lover (ex lover at that.) Tell me do you really know what she wants? Probably not. And guess what, neither does she.

I could blame this on youth, but frankly you will see this all your life. Some call it the roll-a-coaster of love/life, others.... Frankly who cares what you call it.

Now lets focus on where you should be focus: On you. You can not be responsible for others, just yourself. Tell me what you want and how are you going to get it. If you are "centered", then her vacillations will not matter.

Relationship are difficult: there is a physical part, an emotional part, some say the spiritual part, etc. You are probably in the first two. Sex gets you quickly into the physical and clouds the emotional. Inexperience is exactly that, and now your have one experience. One is not many, but one is enough. It is your first time, probably/hopefully not your last time; breaking up is hard to do (for you and for her).

No one understands where the heart leads. In your case, be yourself, know yourself, be patience and follow your heart, even if you do not know where you are going.

Did she leave me for another guy?

Honestly, I dont think what she did was completely fair.. I mean, she broke up with you... then says she wants a break. She invited u 2 this party, and gets mad because... you see Dustin there? N she ditches u? Ooh Wee...

Listen, I dont want to offend dis gurl of urs... But you're not the one at fault here..(Being Young, Acutally) Sooner or Later, if not now, she's gotta make up her own mind about what she really wants.. She seems friendly enough, and u guys could be kool on friendly terms--but I doubt she's 4 real abt the future dating thing.. She likes you, but she still isn't sure about going in a relationship wif u.. Because of Dustin.. She likes him--She mite date him--they do their bf gf thing--they mite break up--she mite get heartbroken--she mite 4get him... I dunno, But I think she's also going thru some rough stuff..

One thing's 4sure, and its already visible--is that.. whether u and Tiffany DO or DO NOT get in a relationship, she'll b happy 2 be ur friend. N I suggest u start acceptin her as one so dis can b easier 4 both of u... Maybe she'll change--maybe she IS serious--we dnt know what's going on in her thoughts... She's gotta know what she means 2 u , N She's gotta make some serious decisions... She's Aware of How She' been acting, and she might want to make up for it.. Keep ur Mind--and ur eyes open, u wnt kno wot 2morrow brings..

--THEN we'll see who she'll take.. You, or Dustin, the "ignorant asshole"..

But for now, If things remain the Status Quo, Let Her Go... She Aint worth It.. U'll find Someone Else