how beautiful she is after all these years, I wanted to marry you even when I was 15,. but even to this day I knew you were the one, .Maybe one day if it's meant to be, we could finish what we started. I spent all the time on our relationship and the other guy ended up with you. (and stuff like this)
Then his significant other catches him, and he deletes his myspace, and swears none of it was, cries and apologizes for days. (and does not try to contact the other women so far, for weeks I know he hasnt, and I believe her)
Would he try to contact her again eventually? She told him she broke up with him because he went out with another girl when she moved out of state, but that she understood why he did, and she felt her having to move away with her family is what screwed thier relationshp up. So does that sound like she'd have him back ever? I cant keep an eye on him 24/7, or would want to. Would he contact her again, or was this just youth fantasy? The things he said were deep :(
What make a man look up his ex (on myspace) and start going into details on...?
LoL there are a couple of things that could cause this....
1.) He truly means it, but probably isnt the case.
2.) Its more of a game to him, to see if he still "has" her like that. To see if he can throw a few lines out there and if she'll come running back. Good chance thats it...
3.) Last - something has gone terribly wrong with his plans and he is searching for options b/c he feels rushed or desperate now. Good chance this is it too...
Id say the chances are 1% for answer number 1 - 49.5% its answer 2 - 49.5% its answer number 3.
What make a man look up his ex (on myspace) and start going into details on...?
he is doing it out of regret for things in his past. The point you should look at, is if she responded to him. If not, you have nothing to worry about. You said she ended it, and for good reason. Perhaps he realized a day late that he did make a mistake. But it worked in your favor cause you got the girl.
What make a man look up his ex (on myspace) and start going into details on...?
can you say pathetic.... you clearly are to be with a guy like this... seriously this will never work and yes most likely he will try to contact her again... If it isn't going to work for yous alone, it most certainly wont work to keep your family together... drop him and find a guy who wants to wrap his life around you and not search for long lost exs...
What make a man look up his ex (on myspace) and start going into details on...?
God! guys are so stupid sometimes right??? talk as a couple instead of asking here in YA...coz we don't really know your husband maybe he's good inside and that he loves you and that ONLY you would really know right... and i guess it's better if you'd talk to him instead of aking other people because you might get fired up and then you'd just end up fighting with him.
ask him. he has the right to know what you're thinking and you have the right to voice out what you feel.
What make a man look up his ex (on myspace) and start going into details on...?
I don't think your concern should be on if she would have him back. The biggest issue is, why did he contact her and say those things. What is your relationship like with him? Sometimes, people need to resolve let go of past hurts but he clearly left a door open with saying "Maybe one day if it's meant to be, we could finish what we started." So it wasn't a contact to move on with his life. He still feels like she is the one and still wants her.
I think that people can have thoughts about the past and what could have been but he now has a relationship and a child with you. He opened doors that should not have been open. He needs to admit his feelings and seek couples counseling if he is committed to your relationship. This is a bad situation he has created. How do you have contact with her? I am not sure where that fits in here. You say, " The things he said were deep" No longer a fantasy, he has made it real and put it out there for her to make a move as he already has. You guys really need to talk about this and find a good counselor. I do think the possibility is there for her as she told him she understood why he made some choises and the only reason for their end was her moveing, not that she wanted to end it. The trust between you both is broken as he is denying and even swearing that it is not true. If you have access to the comp. he used then I think you need to check the history file and anything else he has done on the comp. I wish you the best.
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