Friday, December 25, 2009

How to approach a guy about being dishonest?

I just met this guy about 2-3 weeks ago. He told me he was 25 had 1 daughter and that he was in the Real Estate business. Come to find out that was a lie. His mom told me that he worked at Kmart and he actually has two daughters. And according to his myspace page he is 22. I already know that I don't want to continue seeing this person becuase he has been dishonest with me. What I need to know is how do I approach him about lying without hurting his feelings. I guess he was ashamed that he has 2 children and he works at Kmart. I told him from the door I don't like liers. What should I say to him, his mom told me not to tell him that she told me the truth about him.



How to approach a guy about being dishonest?

No need to approach him. If he is a liar then just ignore and stay away from him.



How to approach a guy about being dishonest?

You don't have to tell him how you found out. Next time he calls or stops by, just say "listen (friend) I know that you lied to me, not just about one thing, but several, and I let you know that I am not into liars, so it's been nice, but it's over. Have a nice life."



Good luck and God Bless.



How to approach a guy about being dishonest?

Best is tell him u have decided not to date anybody for sometime due to personal reasons and thank him for being ur "friend" for however long u knew him....or u have to tell him u r cutting ties with him for own good reasons... if he asks u that if u r seeing someone else, say him yes...



How to approach a guy about being dishonest?

You are being way too considerate! Just stop returning all his calls and emails?! Simple as that...he'll get the message...you've only know him for "2-3 weeks" which is nothing in the scheme of things...you probably won't even remember his name in 5 years?! You don't need to justify yourself and give him a reason why you're not going to see him anymore? Just avoid him...he'll get the hint.



How to approach a guy about being dishonest?

Hi. If you've decided not to see him anymore (good choice, imho), don't confront the lying; why waste another moment? Simply tell him you're no longer interested in pursuing a relationship for personal reasons, and wish him the best.



How to approach a guy about being dishonest?

Tell him you heard from a friend and that he didn't have to lie about the job or the kids. Sounds like to me he's a little immature. He should be proud that he has a job to be able to support the 2 kids that he has-not be ashamed of either. I think he lied because most women don't want to be bothered w/ "baggage" from another relationship. You do what you feel is right for you-who knows, maybe it'll turn into something you didn't expect.



How to approach a guy about being dishonest?

You are extremely lucky to find out the truth so early. I see no point in you being worried about hurting his feelings when he gave a damn to yours by lying, least worried that truth would get revealed anytime.I think he doesn't deserve a second look.I do understand your feelings but still I advice you to be strong, don't look back at him and let this man not exploit you



anymore.



How to approach a guy about being dishonest?

just forget abt him

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