Monday, December 28, 2009

Please help! i like this guy....?

So i like this guy but i dont think he likes me. I barely ever see him, and i probably wont be able to see him for a like a month or so. I have his myspace and hopefully i will get his screenname but how do i get him to like me, or even just like me as a good friend because we barely know eachother, and ive never had a BF before so i have no clue what to do lol...Help! Oh and dont tell me to just be myself because i know that already.



Please help! i like this guy....?

The "be yourself" bit is said because there's little point attracting someone you're not compatible with. And without knowing who you're compatible with it's hard to know what else to say, as the ways to attract a rapper are different to the ones that might work on an accountant. Either way, what you're after is for him to notice that you like him, and hopefully respond to that. You can either tell him you like him (or ask him out) straight out or show it more subtly and wait for him to notice. How to do the latter is cultural, but basically be a little more open to him than you are to other guys - again, I can't tell you if that means you should be warm and friendly to him or wiggle your butt at him (or a bit of both). For some people it means acting coy or sending mixed signals all the time, for some it means giving him a look down your cleavage. Play to your strengths and don't do anything you're not comfortable doing. You also have to judge this from his perspective - if you look and behave the same way as every other girl around him, he's not likely to take particular notice of you. Don't be afraid of screwing up - better to make a mistake and learn from it than miss out and not learn anything. Good luck!

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