What's up with this guy...anything?

met a guy in july, we had sex, i got his #, asked if he wanted to hang out again, he said he wasnt looking for anything serious. I was like, umm yeah, i jsut asked if u wanted to hang out again. I never called him. My friend would say he was asking about me, so 3 months later, i added him to myspace. He responded immediately saying we should meet up. We met up a few days later, had sex again. I saw him 2 days later, he fixed my car, then saw him a week later, had sex with him again. He made references to us hanging out again. I didnt contact him, he contacted me monday night asking how i was. We texted back adn forth, i asked when he was stopping by (; he said it was a little far for during the week (he's 49 min away from me and has to get up at 5am) So i dont get it...i guess we will just hang out whenever the hell he feels like it?

What's up with this guy...anything?

He'll see you whenever it is convenient. He enjoys the sex, but not enough to go out of his way.

What's up with this guy...anything?

Don't fall into the trap about the particulars: when is he coming, how often he texts, what he said, how he said, etc.

You both are not exclusive to each other; it is a relationship of convienience...for you as well as him. So far, it seems to be a sexual relationship.

Do you want more? I think you do. Get to know him more... spend more time together, without sex, and find out more about him.

He seems to limit his contact with you...to make you want him more. Do the same - limit your contact with him. Wait till he calls you or text you first. Let him make the first move sometimes. Don't be so quick to answer his messages...let him see you...and KNOW...that you have a life, that you don't sit down and wait for his texts all day.

Pick and choose the times you communicate with him. Doing this will help you look less desparate and more in control of yourself.

Have options - Don't let him be the only one checking you out. Flirt with and check out other guys, so that way you have a backup plan when the need arises. Until he expresses a need for more between you, get with some friends and see what's out there.

You'll be better off for doing that.

Take care. Let me know how it goes.