I'm not even sure what I'm trying to ask, but here it goes. I'm 17 years old and I've had a crush on my neighbor since the day he moved in... he moved in three years ago when he was 23 and is now 26. So basically, I've had a crush on him for three years. My parents like him too and he's such a great guy - one of those people who just make you happy to talk to them because they're in a good mood all the time.
Now, I just found out that he might be moving and I'm heartbroken. I know that there's a HUGE age difference and I don't want to go out with him or anything, but is there anything I can do to keep in touch with him? Would that be weird to add him as a friend on myspace or something? Should I tell him I'm going to miss him?
I know it sounds stalker-ish, but I'm so sad that once he leaves I'll probably NEVER see him again... it scares me. Is there anything I can do to keep in touch or to feel better? Thanks so much :/
Help with a special guy, PLEASE!?
Use your brain then your heart!
Let your heart feel it and
Use your Brain to Interpret it
Nobody can really decide what best for you because its you who will take good care of your life forever, whatever happen always remember that at the end of the day, what really matters is your Happiness.
Its you who will decide for your life!
If you will do nothing, perhaps you may never see him again
If you do act now, there a big chances of seeing him again!
Act now before you loose your happiness. Goodluck!
Help with a special guy, PLEASE!?
You can ask him if he would mind you putting him on myspace as a friend, or if your could have his e-mail address. If he hesitates answering you know he'd rather not. If he says okay then please don't try to talk to him every day and don't send him a lot junk and don't go on and on about how much you miss him. Mention it maybe once or twice in your first e-mails or what ever but don't over do it.. Remember the age difference and since he's an adult he probably wont have a lot of time to chat. You can tell him when you ask, that you enjoy talking to him and you would like to stay in touch. Having a crush can be tough, and even though you know you couldn't go out with him it doesn't make your feelings any less real. When he moves try to find something new to do so that you'll have your mind in it rather than how much you miss him.
Help with a special guy, PLEASE!?
Sounds like infatuation to me. Something that would wear out in a few months if you don't see him.
I have a question for you. What are you really expecting? Do you really expect to be with him? Do you think if you tell him that you like him, he will ignore everything and not move away? If you tell him, he will simply ignore it as fancies of a silly girl.
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